When my marriage of 22 years broke up, I was left reeling. The shock and confusion were totally devastating and overwhelming. The future I thought we had was gone.
I had just turned 50 and the future looked very bleak and incredibly frightening. I was totally unprepared for the ensuing legal process, and completely emotionally drained. I had 3 teenage daughters and very little idea of my financial situation.
Over the next few months I experienced a massive roller-coaster of very raw emotions: anger, pain, fear, hurt, confusion and shock. I felt consumed by the divorce and life was becoming one big blur. A cancer scare, my mother’s dementia and subsequent death added to the raw emotions.
Then I discovered coaching. My experience of the coaching I received prompted me to train as a coach. Through this, I learnt how to rebuild my life, rediscover myself and my identity, and found an inner strength and confidence I never knew existed.
You may be feeling the fear, hurt and confusion and not know which way to go; I completely understand. I am truly passionate about helping others and would like to enable you to find a way through your troubles and empower you to find your path to a happy and fulfilled life after divorce or breakup.
I also have an interest in helping those who are neurodiverse, and an understanding of life as a military wife.
I have used my experience for a positive and wonderful new phase in my life – like the phoenix emerging from the ashes.